孩子厌学不愿意和父母沟通怎么办?
每天因为孩子的问题而感到心情无比焦虑。同时,很多家长会觉得和孩子的沟通无外乎是一个大难题。
“你怎么不和我们说话?我们管你吃、你穿、你还要买什么?”
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“你说不想听啊?不说又怕被你骂”
“怎么不好好学习,天天玩手机!”
“老师天天在群里点名批评你,你是猪吗?”
“跟你说过多少遍了?”
“你怎么就不明白呢?今天不听我好好说话,明天就别去学校了!”
“一天天就知道打游戏,你也不好好学习,还有理由和我顶嘴!”
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不想上学,不想上学,不愿见人,不愿上学,无法正常参加考试,等等等,而且已经有自残自伤行为,很多都有一个共同的特点,就是经常出现在青少年身上。
他们没有得到治疗,采用的办法就是反复自残自伤,而且无法自控。
严重的甚至会出现幻觉和妄想,如把自己按倒在地上,身上、沙发、桌子、椅子上,甚至被旁人送去医院。
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如果孩子出现自残自伤行为,家长可以带他们去专业机构或医院寻求帮助,以免耽误孩子病情。
经治疗
:如果已经影响到日常生活,医生可以使用心理咨询师进行心理治疗。
这里要提醒大家,心理咨询师无论是在临床上还是在其他领域的心理咨询,都要注重观察孩子的情绪,如果孩子出现频繁自残自伤的情况,家长一定要重视了,必要时一定要寻求心理医生的帮助。
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作者 | 汤米
编辑 | 不下雨
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